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Stephy’s Stunning Late Night

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There are a lot of amazing views you can get from standing on the roof top at night. Nothing maybe better than Stephy lounging and enjoying the sites.

"IF YOU COME INTO "FAME" NOT UNDERSTANDING WHO YOU ARE, IT WILL DEFINE WHO YOU ARE" 💎

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"and since I made it here I can make it anywhere, yeah, they love me everywhere" 🗽

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Why You Shouldn’t Look Her In The Eyes During A Fight

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You want your girlfriend to stop being pissed at you? The easiest way is to listen. That easy to say and hard to do sometimes. The reason why is that we focus in on her body language. You read the frown, watch the arms fold, and you make a quick assessment of what can be coming without listening.

The next time you get in argument with her maybe you should not look at her directly according to a new study published in the journal American Psychologist.

In the study, researchers conducted five different experiments involving more than 1,800 people across the U.S. In the experiments, people were asked to interact with each other under a variety of circumstances: In some cases, they were only able to listen and not look; in others, they were able to look but not listen; and some participants were able to both look and listen.

The results? Those who listened without observing were most likely to correctly identify other people’s emotions.

“Many tests of emotional intelligence rely on accurate perceptions of faces,” says Michael Kraus, Ph.D., lead author on the study. “What we find here is that perhaps people are paying too much attention to the face—the voice might have much of the content necessary to perceive others’ internal states accurately.”

So if you want to reduce the amount of stress on both of you, try looking gazing away for a bit.
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Stress Is Ruining Your Relationship

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Everyone feels stress on daily basis. EVERYONE. Rather is internal or external. From the daily grind of work, bills, deadlines, to an unbalanced relationship. Stress is often the key source to ruining relationships. It has a toxic effect that often times takes the form of blame, impacts intimacy, or worst.

“Stress is an emotional and physiological response to thinking that an event, condition, or situation is [terrible] and that no good can come from [it],” says Dr. Mantell. The trick is to adopt more positive frameworks for difficult situations. Try to remind yourself that you’ll get through it, that there may even be a good reason a certain stressor has occurred—and at worst, it’s only one bad event.

The good news is if you can see signs, you can improve your relationship.

#1. Your Irritable 

If you perceive everything your partner says as a slight or get miffed extra easily, stress may be a factor. The longer stress lasts, the more likely we are to feel grumpy or argumentative and lash out.

Give yourself time to acknowledge the root cause of your stress and frustration. Avoid the immediate outburst. Prioritize and make a commitment to resolve the issues. For example if it is stress from work, make a rule to limit the conversations about work at home.

#2 She Can Be The Victim Not Problem

When we’re chronically stressed, we’re more likely to perceive even the best relationship in a negative light. We’re also unlikely to realize that stress is factoring into that perception. Placing the blame solely on her is draining and simply unfair. Sometimes he or she will be too overworked to help you as effectively as you’d like, and vice versa.

If you really care about her ask for help. Don’t try solve every damn problem in one day. Set goals together on what you both want to accomplish.

#3 Not Enough

If you can devote hours of your day watching videos and working for some company. Than you gave yourself time. Time is the biggest causes of stress in relationship. She wants more, you want more time. You want to do what you want and she wants to do something else.

Compromise for mutual time and be in the moment. That doesn’t mean go out with her and stay on your phone. Be in the moment. Schedule time to relax together and set rules that are acceptable for both parties.

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The Right Way To End The Night

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You spot her from the across the room. You don’t even know her name, you never even heard her voice, or know if she is here alone.  All you know is that you can’t take your eyes off her.  Either this the start of some cheesy romantic comedy or one of the best nights of your life.

What you do in the next couple of minutes can be the difference between you spending the night alone or you and getting coffee in the morning. Is having sex on the first night good or bad? The answer is neither. 

1. Be Confident

Be confident in yourself and your approach. She needs to be 100% comfortable with you. There are no in-between areas. If you come off as not having confidence, she will view everything you say as misleading.

That doesn’t mean be brash or over eager to head for the exit. Don’t be a dick. Being overly cocky about yourself is the number 1 turn off for most woman. This comes off more like you are insecurity and is a huge red flag. 

2. Look Her in Her Eyes

This should go without saying. The eyes are the window to the soul. A strong gaze pulls her into the moment. Your eyes wandering on her body or other women is a sign of insincerity. 

3. Don’t Expose Your Negatives

When you talk to her, stay positive. Don’t rattle off your negatives. Complain about your night or your ex. That’s just depressing. If you bring up anything negative keep it short. Focus on build chemistry with her and being in the moment. Talk about your passions, the things that make you smile. 

Focus on her, complainant her view points, her attire, and challenge some of her norms.

4. Be Direct

Once you have built a repro with her make your intentions clear. Approaching a woman with the clear intentions of causal no strings attached sex rarely is recipe for success. It is better to be upfront with her about what you want. Don’t confuse her with pointless conversation. Communication is the key to building chemistry and it works both ways. She will tell you what she wants and what she is willing do. Don’t try to persuade her to have sex with cheap tricks and false promises. She’s is not a slut and it is not your god given right to have her.  

5. Have An Exit Strategy

Where do you plan on going after you met her? If you do not have a ride or a room to finish the night, grab her number and setup a proper date. The vibe is automatically killed with let me “get my roommates to leave” or “what about this parking lot”. That sounds funny but I’ve heard worst.  

If you drove her to place, be a gentleman. Offer her a way home. It’s not fair to her to figure it out. If she drove herself walk her to her car. Ask her to send a text when she made it home, goes a long way. Rather you plan on asking her out again or not. There is no way she will want to be in contact with you, if you spend the entire night treating her like she is a gift and throwing her out as quick you can,

BOTTOM LINE

Perhaps you got lucky? Perhaps she got lucky? Perhaps the stars aligned in both of  you were in the right place at the right time. None of that matters if you don’t take my advice on how to approach her, you will just be on wishing on the stars like everyone else. 

Also make sure to follow me @flameemin.

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