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Does Smoking Weed Impact Your Sex Life



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Have you smoked weed today? Or are you blazing it with your homies as we speak? The chances are, you’ll end up having sex tonight. Or at least that’s what this new study has shown.

Peanut butter and jelly. Marijuana and sex. Certain things just seem to grind well together.

After exhausting decades of debates about the effects of weed on your sex drive, we finally may have an answer. People who torch up every day say they have more sex, according to a new study by Stanford University.

Doctors have been telling us this over and over again for decades now: smoking weed may kill your sex drive. But apparently they got it all wrong all along!

The Stanford researchers (and let’s hope they’re right this time) conducted a survey and analyzed data from over 50,000 people aged 25-45, and the conclusion was somewhat astonishing (but not to daily tokers, it wasn’t).

The study has found that frequent smoking of marijuana actually improves sex life. For men, daily potheads got laid an average of 6.9 times in four weeks, while those who didn’t fire it up had intercourse only 5.6 times.

For women, nonusers reported doing the deed an average of 6.7 times in four weeks, while ladies who smoke pot every day got between the sheets 7.3 times. That means people who smoke dope have 20% more sex than those who don’t.

However, don’t expect sex to just fall into your lap the second you put a joint in your mouth. And don’t expect a warning on your bong that says, “smoking weed may cause lots of sex” anytime soon either.

Here’s how the study can be interpreted: those who get blazed regularly are more likely to be more open to having sex and/or be in situations or environments that lead to sexual intercourse.

Meaning: most people smoke pot with their homies and gals. And since they are in the same room together, why not engage in other fun activities with these people?

But if you’re one of the “I’d rather just sit there and stare at the ceiling” type, then don’t expect marijuana to bring more sex into your life.

In fact, since weed is well-known for its relaxing and stress-mitigating properties, smoking dope may help you feel more confident and find those right words to slide into a girl’s DMs.

So yeah… you may want to get high on potenuse if you want to get frisky more frequently.

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Stress Is Ruining Your Relationship



Everyone feels stress on a daily basis. EVERYONE. Rather is internal or external. From the daily grind of work, bills, deadlines, to an unbalanced relationship. Stress is often the key source to ruining relationships. It has a toxic effect that often times takes the form of blame, impacts intimacy, or worst.

“Stress is an emotional and physiological response to thinking that an event, condition, or situation is [terrible] and that no good can come from [it],” says Dr. Mantell. The trick is to adopt more positive frameworks for difficult situations. Try to remind yourself that you’ll get through it, that there may even be a good reason a certain stressor has occurred—and at worst, it’s only one bad event.

The good news is if you can see signs, you can improve your relationship.

#1. Your Irritable 

If you perceive everything your partner says as a slight or get miffed extra easily, stress may be a factor. The longer stress lasts, the more likely we are to feel grumpy or argumentative and lash out.

Give yourself time to acknowledge the root cause of your stress and frustration. Avoid the immediate outburst. Prioritize and make a commitment to resolve the issues. For example, if it is stress from work, make a rule to limit the conversations about work at home.

#2 She Can Be The Victim Not Problem

When we’re chronically stressed, we’re more likely to perceive even the best relationship in a negative light. We’re also unlikely to realize that stress is factoring into that perception. Placing the blame solely on her is draining and simply unfair. Sometimes he or she will be too overworked to help you as effectively as you’d like, and vice versa.

If you really care about her ask for help. Don’t try to solve every damn problem in one day. Set goals together on what you both want to accomplish.

#3 Not Enough Time

If you can devote hours of your day watching videos and working for some company. Then you gave yourself time. Time is the biggest causes of stress in the relationship. She wants more, you want more time. You want to do what you want and she wants to do something else.

Compromise for mutual time and be in the moment. That doesn’t mean go out with her and stay on your phone. Be in the moment. Schedule time to relax together and set rules that are acceptable to both parties.

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What Not To Text Your Ex



You and your woman decide to part ways. The spark is gone, but you leave the relationship on “good” terms. It’s understandable the doubts cross your mind, did you make the right call, should you have fought a little harder to keep her?  You still have some of the things and want to use it as an “excuse” to talk to her.

Whatever the reason you have for texting your ex you have to keep some rules in mind if you don’t want to appear desperate and heartbroken.

Ten things to never text to your ex:

1.  One word text. “Hi” or “Yo”. Be direct with your reason for contacting her. Leaving a one-word text could leave you waiting for a response because she is waiting on more context behind the sudden text.

2. Sex text. You haven’t seen her in a month. You don’t know her situation, nor do you want her to think that is all you want from and the total worth of your relationship. Avoid the Favre text move, unless you have rekindled your relationship. If not you can have a bitter ex exposing you on social media.

3. Hulk rants. If your upset, go to the gym and work it off. Don’t send her hateful messages about the breakup or jealous messages because she moved on. If she hasn’t responded to your text get the hint and move on.

4. Drunk texts. If your ex is on your mind before you go drinking, give you one of friends instructions to take the phone once you have reached your limit. You may find yourself with sending out an apology text next day.

5.  The flood texts. “Why didn’t you text me back?” “Did you get my message?” “I HIT YOU UP 10X” Send one text. Allow her time to respond to you, if she doesn’t enjoy the single life until you find someone else.

6. Relationship talk. In the words of Andre 3000 “Spaceships don’t come with rearview mirrors”  meaning leave the past in the past. Don’t reminisce with her over a text message. If the conversations are progressive and positive. Calling and talking about your relationship is more personable versus sending her an 8-page text.

7. Desperate apologies and pleading. Do not try to win back your ex by begging over text. “Come on man”  you’re better than that.

8.  Stalker text. Stop trolling her social network pages. You and her are no longer together which means you should be out of her social circles.  So never text her about an event she was at or who was in the picture with her. It just makes you appear jealous and is not a good look.

9. Emotional text. “I still love you”  Pause and think about before you press send. You separated for a reason and being overly emotional can open a door you don’t want to be opened. When in doubt, don’t press send. Read the message, let it stay as a draft for couple hours. After you have waited and your head is clear press send or delete.

10. The buyback text. Don’t try to win her over, but saying you buy something for her. It is never worth to buy someone’s emotions. It leads to a road that is hard to sustain and will eventually create an empty feeling.

But when in doubt, don’t text just clear your head before you press send.


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Escaping The Friend Zone



You find yourself stuck in between a rock and hard place. You want to take the next in your relationship, but the problem is she your friend. You ignored all of your friends who told you to stay away from the friend zone. But you didn’t listen, now you are stuck with your emotions.

Escaping the friend zone can be like trying to escape a black hole, o yeah that’s right nothing escapes a black hole. What is the friend zone really, women classify you either in the “friend” “bestie”  something close to a ”boyfriend” with no intimacy category. Women rarely re-categorize you once you have accepted the particular role.

Maybe the friend zone you’re in is more like the Phantom Zone. There is still some type of hope to escape. Check out our tips on move the next level.

Be Honest With Yourself

It is not as simple as I know her better than anyone. Not damn she’s too good for that dude. I deserve to be with her. That’s all ego and none of those reasons are valid.

First, before you think about her be honest with yourself. Is she really the person you need to be in a relationship with? Is your friendship with her worth losing?


Treat Her Like A Woman You Want To Date

Stop treating her like one of the guys or like her brother. I know you may think, that’s what has separated you from the other guys that are chasing her.

That could be how you moved into the friend zone. You want to show her how you treat women that you are interested in. Start off small being a gentleman, holding the door open for her when both of you are out.

Don’t treat her like ex-boyfriend, she is not with him for a reason

Ask Her Out for A Date

The journey of getting out of the friend zone begins. Ask her out for a date; if she becomes hesitant at first then ask her out for a non-date. Maybe taking a walk in the park or doing things you usually do as friends. From this, you may eventually convince her to go out on a romantic date with you. If you wanted to escape the stressing friend zone, you need to let her feel and notice your romantic feelings.

However, things typically need to take an intimate turn during the first few dates or it is very likely that they never will. You may be seeing signs of friend zone because she believes that you are not brave enough to move things to the next level or that you are really not attracted to her

Take A Step Back

If you want a girl to daydream about you, do not let yourself be treated like her boyfriend. It may stink to have yourself in this kind of situation. Especially, if you knew deep inside that you really like her. If you want to capture her attention and let her feel the incompleteness due to your absence, stop hanging out with her or calling her.

The thought of winning your friend’s heart by staying on her side at all times do not really work. The more you are acting as a boyfriend, the more she will treat you like an older brother. So do not let your friend treat you as if you are her bf not unless you already are.

Change Something About Yourself

Familiarity breeds contempt. Well, in the case of friends, it may not exactly be contempt, but shaking up something about yourself may cause a “wow” moment in her and stir up romantic feelings.

Make positive changes to yourself that will make her see you in a new light (being friends, you should have some idea of what she thinks is positive). A new haircut or a new wardrobe could catch her eye. Or by displaying a more confident attitude around her, it might force her to rethink whether you’re in the ”friend” or ”boyfriend” category.

Exercise some common sense and subtlety, though. If she says she likes a new band, don’t rush out and buy all their albums, merchandise and tickets to their next gig — that just comes across as pathetic.

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